Signs of a high value woman

1. Career – High expectations can manifest in her professional life, where she aims for success, growth, and fulfilment in her career, often striving for leadership roles or significant achievements. She demands that she strives for excellence and doesn’t want to be average in her career pursuits, she wants to achieve and be proud of her accomplishments.
2. Personal Growth- She might prioritise self-improvement and expect herself (and others) to invest in personal development and learning. She is of a growth mindset and is always looking at ways to improve herself mentally, physically and spiritually. And is committed to learning.
3. Quality of Life – High expectations may involve a desire for a certain quality of life, including financial stability, travel experiences, and holistic well-being.
4. Appearance – A high value woman takes immense pride in her personal appearance, she knows to be at the level she intends, she needs to take care of her mind body and spirit, so she will invest in good nutrition, be disciplined with what she eats, she sees food as fuel not just something to mindlessly indulge in. She will eat well, and have some form of exercise in her routine, whether it’s going for a run, Pilates class, yoga, or getting her 10,000 steps in daily. She is going to have habits which ensure she is keeping in shape. As well as maintaining her appearance with grooming such a hair appointment, waxing or laser hair removal, and regular nail appointments. She will also pay attention to what she wears, a high value woman has sex appeal, but she doesn’t like to reveal too much, she will wear clothes which accentuate her figure, without living little to the imagination. Often a little more conservative in her appearance, well kept, and presentable always. She usually likes to enhance her appearance with make-up, and has her own style, which is not over the top, but again enhances her features. She also has a good level of hygiene and takes care of her skin. If you see her without, make up on, she still has a glow because how she takes care of herself shows on the outside. She knows how to dress up for the occasion, but equally she is comfortable in casual clothes, but again always smart.
5. Friendships and Social Circles**: She may look for supportive, genuine friendships where there is mutual respect and understanding. And be selective with who she associates with, they need to be of a similar ilk.
6. Romantic interests – a high value woman is going to be selective with who she chooses to involve herself with romantically. She will be seeking qualities such as emotional intelligence, a man who is able to express and manage his emotions well.

Ambition and drive, a high value woman has ambition and drive and finds it hard to see herself with a partner who doesn’t share that as a value, she wants someone to be as motivated and passionate as she is, about what every it is that they are doing, and to have confidence in their abilities, is something she finds very attractive.

Honesty and integrity, meaning she really needs a man she is trust, who is honest in his communication, transparent, and open with her about all things. Which creates a sense of emotional safety. And with that comes integrity, where words match actions, doing what you say you intend to do, is something high value women really look for in a partner.

As they aren’t just talkers or dreamers, yes, they dream but they go after their dreams and make it happen and stay consistent with their actions.

It is also about having a strong moral compass.

Even in business you would not want to conduct business with someone dishonest and whose word cannot be trusted that they will honour their commitments.

A high value woman wants a man to be demonstrative about the way he feels, romantic gestures, and being expressive in talking about feelings when the time is right is important, they don’t like to play games, as their time is valuable since they only spend their time on things which are for bettering themselves in some way. Whether that be spending time with family and friends and experiencing genuine love and affection, or working on their passion project, exercising, or travelling, so if a high value woman gives you her time, she is sacrificing time spent doing something she really enjoys, so they really don’t like to play games or will not tolerate being strung along.

They want to know what your intentions are sooner than later.

A high value woman also knows her own mind, and knows that as much as her beauty may be appealing to a man, she wants to be respected for her mind too, and for her views to be treated with respect, to be able to engage in intelligent stimulating conversation, and not to be seen as lesser than or certainly as though she isn’t clued up because she’s a woman. She wants to feel her partner can talk to her about anything from current affairs to politics and he will value her input

A high value woman alludes confidence, and she doesn’t want a man who will shrink in her presence, he needs to have high self-worth and a high self-esteem, without being egotistical and arrogant, a touch of humility is always appreciated, as Is quiet confidence. Often high value women prefer the quiet confidence over the man who must be the centre of attention and loudest in the room.

Because a high value woman also has many dreams and goals she is pursuing and she will not want to forget about them because she becomes a wife or even a mother, she really seeks a partner who will be supportive of the things she wants to go after. She welcomes someone who is going to be encouraging of her goals and aspirations, and a constant support someone to lean on in times of need or motivation.

She wants someone she can talk to about anything and seeks a partner who always wants that deeper connection, those best friend but you fancy the pants off each other type of vibes.

She needs to also feel a man’s desire for her, she will often be a passionate woman who wants a man who is going to pursue her romantically and let her know by his words, his physical touch and presence how much he is really tuned in and turned on by her. When they reach that level in a relationship

A high value woman needs solid foundations to build a relationship.

She may appear as those she is playing hard to get, but high value women don’t play games, just not everyone is in their league, and they know the value they bring to a relationship.

Now not every high value woman will display every single one of these traits, one thing about high value women is they are always looking at ways to improve themselves, develop new habits, create new routines, to better and improve themselves and the impact they have on others.

The main thing is she is someone who has a growth mindset and is interested in self-improvement and development. As with every individual becoming the best version of yourself is a journey.

Having high expectations can be positive, as it often reflects ambition, self-worth, and a desire for meaningful connections. However, it can also lead to disappointment if those expectations aren’t met. And often women with high expectations will find themselves single for a long time before they meet a man who meets their expectations. This is another reason ambitious women may seek out a matchmaker like me to introduce them to men who they feel have similar standards set for themselves and have created a similar lifestyle. The key still is finding a balance between maintaining standards and being flexible in relationships and life experiences and understanding that in relationships you will still be working towards goals together and you may not walk straight into the dream lifestyle you desire, you may need to put the work in to create it!

And if you are an ambitious man with goals and dreams, the qualities a high value woman brings can really be a great choice in choosing a partner.

Siobhan Copland