Why You Should Consider Using a Matchmaker in 2025

Why You Should Consider Using a Matchmaker in 2025

In today’s fast-paced world, finding love can feel like a daunting task.

The endless swiping on dating apps, navigating superficial connections, and dealing with time wasters can leave even the most optimistic romantics feeling exhausted.

If you’re tired of the dating grind or simply want to explore a more intentional, personalised approach to love, working with a matchmaker could be for you. Here’s why using a matchmaker in 2025 could be the best decision you make….

1. A Bespoke and Tailored Approach to Finding Love

Unlike dating apps, where you’re simply another profile in a sea of thousands, a matchmaker takes the time to get to know you—your values, your personality, your relationship goals, and what you’re looking for in a partner. With this deep understanding, matchmakers can find and introduce you to potential matches that are more aligned to your search, making it more likely to find someone you genuinely connect with and who gives you those elusive butterflies!

2. Expert Guidance and Support

A professional matchmaker is more than just a “connector”—they’re an expert who understands the dynamics of attraction, relationships, and personal compatibility.

Siobhan, the founder of Cupid in the City, has been a matchmaker and relationship Coach for over 15 years. With numerous awards under her belt and experience of helping hundreds of singles through matchmaking, coaching and events, she is a true expert at offering guidance and advice on all things dating and relationships. Whether it’s support around really digging deep to discover ore about what you’re searching for in a partner or overcoming barriers that are hindering you forming healthy relationships, a good coach will be able to help and guide you.

So important is coaching, that this personal and one to one guidance comes as part of all memberships at Cupid in the City.

3. Saving Time and Energy

We would all love to meet our future partner through friends, family, socially, through a hobby or a chance romantic encounter. But leaving things to chance doesn’t always pay off.

In fact, for most things in life (that are worth having!) we put in a ton of effort – like getting our dream job, looking after our health, pursuing a passion. Yet for dating, there’s a notion that if we just wait, it will happen. And for some it does. But the majority of us have to put in the leg work and these days that often looks like spending your evening frantically swiping, spending weekends on dates with people you have nothing in common with or being ghosted by someone you’ve been texting with this past week and were feeling excited about.

Huge amounts of time and energy go into dating, but a matchmaker can help alleviate that stress. Let a matchmaker find your matches, let them introduce you to people who are dating with intention and ready and wanting to meet someone.

The time you spend with a matchmaker is an investment in your future. There are few bigger decisions than choosing who to spend your life with.

4. Confidentiality and Discretion

In a world where personal information is often shared freely on social media and dating apps, the level of privacy and discretion that a matchmaker offers can be refreshing.
If you value confidentiality and want to protect your personal life while dating, a matchmaker ensures that your information is kept private. This is particularly appealing for professionals in the public eye who want to maintain a level of privacy while seeking a partner.

5. A Higher Success Rate

Matchmakers have years of experience. Their day to day job is to bring together couples who are compatible, not just based on superficial traits such as height or hair colour, but on shared values, interests, and long-term goals. This attention to detail often results in more successful matches, and in turn, more lasting relationships. Matchmakers work only with singles who are in the right place in their life to embrace, and whom want, a loving, lasting and happy relationship.

Using a matchmaker isn’t just about finding someone to date—it’s about finding a partner who is truly right for you. If you’re tired of swiping, frustrated with superficial connections, or simply want a more focused, intentional approach to love, working with a matchmaker could be the perfect solution.

Book an Informal Chat Today

So why not take the next step in your journey? It could be the best decision you make.
Book in a relaxed and informal chat with a friendly matchmaker at Cupid in the City today to find out how we can help you make 2025 your best year yet.